5. Putting the list side by side made it easier to compare. He seemed on edge when he got home from work. Break up and never look back. But he also has always needed to be in control and cannot accept the thought that he is not so does all he can to remain in control. Most worrisome is that he repeats the same stories of his job, his ex wives, his children like hes never told them before. My marriage ended after 38 years and I was a wreck, but with self help I feel I have bounced back to a new wonderful life. But after reading comments on this website I am totally convinced it is narcissism with my spouse. Years and years looking for answers. But my fear is that the relief is temporary.. i wont be relieved for 40 years What will happen to me when that moves on.. the emptiness of my life, the whole thing.. is pretty dam bad. Luckily I was able to find such very excellent therapy for my brother, but more by luck than judgement, believe me. It says enough i believe. Do they take on some of those traits? He kept talking about a woman he knew bothered me and I kept asking him to stop and was getting very upset. He then showed me her photo on his phone and I lost it, knocking the phone out of his hand. I have a stepmom with narcissistic traits and I have autisim, and this article is so right We dont get along very well. Im not a therapist and dont profess to be one. Its possible that my subconscious just wanted that bridge to burn once and for all. A few times he said I was a good person. He responded that since I just couldnt wait until he was better to hear from him, and since we had no interests in common, that some time apart would give us perspective. 2. Rescuing the Inner Child: Therapy for Adults Sexually Abused as Children What I have written may not solve what people are experiencing living with individuals with Aspergers or Autism, but it may go a long way to understanding how they think and why some do the things they do and in turn may help solve a few problems. We do not lack empathy, we have great intuition altho it can be difficult for us to understand it, and some of us are definitely sensitive. One divorce later and I am living the best years of my life now. I feel Im disabled in some way and technology isnt where I ought to be investing my time and my gifts. There could be a variance either way for the autism and the same with the narcissistic traits. I mentioned this to him one day when Id had enough and he got very upset and said now he has to try and remember everything he says too and put it on the list. Since they were all teaming up on me, i had no allies, i had no help. I try my best with them but my psy is a narc the type of my father (he physician boss in healthcare) and my therapists most are narcs too the weak ones like my mother. 9.
can you have both asperger's and narcissism