A: Rejection can be tough, but its important to accept it gracefully. Like youre causing major pain to someone by giving them your #. No! And Id probably be sure to check in on Swarm so thered be a record of it. and it becomes incredibly annoying and frustrating. You can guess empowered is too, but there's a third: ability. In your case, if she declines, you must never mention it again and pretend like it never happened. I got hit on constantly at this job and hated it, but this guy was different and I always looked forward to seeing him. I did get hit on a lot way back then but it was always little boys who wanted me to come over and play and have milk and cookies later because their mom just made the best, etc. A "yes" response would be very cool and and allow you to follow it up with a proposition like, "sometime this week at x coffee shop, is there a good time?". No luck again today =( maybe its because I'm actually looking for her as opposed to noticing her when she around.if that makes sense. What are the advantages of running a power tool on 240 V vs 120 V? Id hesitate against saying dont ask the employee out entirely, because sometimes asking someone out can lead to good things, but Id definitely caution against relying only on signals within the store as the basis for his interest. If she does just ask her if she'd ever consider having coffee with you. I was also wary for the same reasons you are. -while she wasnt ever really convinced that he was flirting with her, everyone else was If you ever want a tutorial in why this is a Very Bad Idea, go ahead and read the Craigslist Missed Encounters section, particularly the men-for-women. That said, if the OP is a woman interested in a man, her odds of him going psychotic on her are a lot lower than in the reverse, so she might have better luck. Men and women (and women and women, and men and men) have made simple personal connections this way since the beginning of time. And youre right. However, I would go about this very, very carefully and only do it if you are more than reasonably sure that he feels the same way. Youre not leaping from someone making your latte to a dinner date, AND youre not forcing them to respond right away, you know, when theyre working. The problem is that all the good intent in the world doesnt really change how the service person being put on the spot is going to react. I remember the first time I took a Business Trip. I think they key with both couples is that there were adults and past the minimum wage jobs. Therefore, don't ask her when her shift ends, or to meet in the rapey spot at the back of the parking lot, after her shift, when it's all dark and gloomy.
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